My project combined two of the things I love the most, dance and photography. In a nutshell, I wanted to document the 'healing process' and community rebuilding achieved by means of dance, especially folk and ritual practices, using photographic images, to be exhibited when the project was over. I wanted to work, for this part of the project, with someone sensitive enough to be able to capture emotion through the camera. I thought at the time of enlisting the help of a photographer whose talent I admired and whom I implicitly trusted. His work spoke to me and I believed he would do a great job. To my utter dismay, though initially interested, as time went on he admitted he was not convinced the project had any worth at all, or that I could take it to completion. He did not believe in the concept, dance and healing meant little to him and there was nothing I could do to inspire in him any genuine interest in the project, as it transpired. So this meant that there was little discussion about the images he would produce. Nevertheless we did a "pilot", with some portraits from the London Khmer community, including their celebration of a Buddhist festival, in order to obtain some visual material to get us started and then I sent off the application.
Photographer: Graham Johnson
There were problems with the way I had mapped out the project and the funding body I had applied to asked me to resubmit my application, once certain issues were addressed. They viewed the idea of dance as a healing practice as fundamentally sound but questioned the management of the project and asked me to clarify my position. What involvement had I had in healing?What involvement would I have in the healing dance process?Those were some of the questions they asked.
At that point the photographer withdrew, telling me I had been wasting his time.
I know from experience that sometimes projects are not successful in attracting support the first time round. You submit an application, get feedback and then resubmit and are successful the second time round. A bit like passing your driving test on your second or third attempt. So I was not inclined to see the request for resubmission as a defeat and was surprised at the photographer's reaction. Later it dawned on me perhaps he was hoping to get a free trip to Cambodia, when it did not happen as initially planned he decided he had other priorities. A good lesson for me. One needs to choose one's collaborators very carefully.
I shall not go into further details of the project as it began to reshape itself. All I will say here is that while mulling this over for the past one and half year, I felt at times so utterly broken inside that I ended up believing, on more than one occasion, that my idea was after all too muddled and I was ready to give it up and just concentrate on my DMP training, for the time being.
Imagine my delight when I found out about David Alan Harris. I felt filled with a new sense of purpose, like seeing light at the end of the tunnel. David is a certified DMP who works among survivors of human rights abuse and war. He has worked in Sierra Leone, Liberia and Zimbabwe. He is inspirational. Recipient of several honours and prizes, he has founded Global Wellbeing, an organisation that endeavours to ease recovery from war and organised violence through DMP. He says:
"Survivors of war’s atrocities must learn to live with what can never be forgotten. Simply resuming daily function means contending with tangible reminders of vulnerability and loss. Where entire populations have been targeted for abuse, the impact of these losses is magnified. Traditional, collective endeavors are often torn apart entirely. Especially in the developing world, post-conflict communities coming to terms with massive violence struggle with terribly complex obstacles, and all the more so where vicious rivalries remain deeply rooted and the worst of emotional wounds ignored".
One does not heal through forgetting, but through the very act of remembering. It is that remembering which helps to come to terms with the pain and feel renewed.
(All photos modelled by AlexB unless otherwise stated)
The idea of healing through dance is not unlike healing through visual art and music. I found that quote you posted to be particularly inspiring and saddening because it is true.
ReplyDelete"One does not heal through forgetting, but through the very act of remembering. It is that which helps to come to terms with the pain and feel renewed."
I have come to learn that very recently since I began an autobiography project. I hope you get the chance to do this.
Thank you Saturnword. When I wrote that line I was remembering the Greek myth of the two rivers Lethe and Mnemosyne and that one should drink the water of Mnemosyne rather than Lethe, because Lethe causes oblivion hence unawareness. Heidegger used the concept of aletheia - the word is derived from lethe - to denote truth, as unconcealment. I have been thinking a lot about healing. Through DMP you dig deep inside yourself and bring things out. Only by doing that you can resolve issues. Awareness rather than forgetfulness brings about healing.
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"Awareness rather than forgetfulness brings about healing." Oh, that is so true! In my own life, awareness of ancient trauma (in the form of my father's death when I was only four years old) has helped me to understand why I am the way I am, and to be more patient with myself.
ReplyDeleteI too have recently become interested in healing through the arts, specifically music. I guess I want to give what I have received, for music has healed me and taught me how to live more healthily in so many ways. But my "healing project" is still in the wish-want stage; I'm not sure what personal or professional development I still need to begin a healing practice. Still, some who should know have told me that my music carries healing energy...
Need I say that I wish you well in your project?
Thanks Jochanaan. I am sure you will find a way to give healing through your music, even if it is a simple charity concert in whatever setting. Music heals, like dance. Though sometimes those who make music that heals others cannot heal themselves
ReplyDeleteWell put, Alex. I'm glad you have that kind of heart.
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